We are multi-faceted people.
A: need sitters/sleepover invites for the kids. YaYa is also available as a sitter if you need one (though we usually like to introduce the kids to her and vice versa first). My mother-in-law was going to take 2 kids when we went out of town for the holiday, but $$ has scrapped that. Maybe she'll keep the offer open even while we're in town?
B: there is a family event @ the Domes that starts at 6 & has "New Years" at 9, but it's pricey for what you get, has no booze, & still leaves the actual midnight hour open. Plus we went once long long ago & weren't overjoyed.
Any other suggestions?